Book of Memories for Matthew E. Helm

Condolence From Gledhill’s

Sun, 24 Nov 2019 21:02:16 EST

Love you bro.. Thank you for blessing us with your talent and unconditional love for helping people.. Your hand was always reached out to help anybody in need.. it’s five years ago.. miss you man... Thank you for the hammer. Leo and I use it all the time. Not a day goes by we don’t think about you. Miss you man.. Brother -In law

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Story shared: Matt the Character

Tue, 17 Nov 2015 14:26:36 EST

Whenever I think of Matt, I laugh at one funny thing or another he did or said. Matt wasn't big on wearing suits or uniforms. He was most comfortable in his own casual clothes. He worked for our business for many years and he would occassionally go out in our truck to pick up and deliver clothing to customers' homes when we were down a man. He had to wear khaki shorts and a company golf shirt when he went out to customers' homes. I knew he didn't love it, but he wore the uniform.

When he would return to the shop, the first thing he did was head to the bathroom to change out of the "monkey suit" and get back into his clothes. I remember going into the bathroom one day after he came back and finding the khaki shorts and golf shirt in the sink. I'm sure he just forgot to take them out and put them in to get cleaned. I just stood there laughing in the bathroom because he just couldn't wait to get that uniform off and get back into his comfortable clothes. He was a character and you couldn't help but laugh.

I miss hearing the garage door go up (outside my office) and turning around to see Matt through the window with a big grin and a loud "Morning James" greeting.

I spent many an afternoon hearing Matty Helms wax poetic about his philosophy about one thing or another. He would often end a sentence with a question for you to ponder. He'd walk away laughing knowing that you would ponder his words after he left.

Matt was always the life of the party and he had a smile that was genuine. Matt was a unique and caring guy. We all miss him.

- Jamie McCormick

Condolence From Larry & Patty Gledhill

Sat, 21 Feb 2015 16:14:13 EST

May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding guard your minds and hearts in this time of grief. May the Comforter, the Holy Spirit, have permanent residence in your souls every day. Hugs!

Story shared: thank you

Wed, 10 Dec 2014 15:02:33 EST

Thank you to everyone for your beautiful words and photos. My dad and I sure appreciate reading and seeing them.

~Teresa (Matt's sister)

Condolence From Teresa (Helm) Gledhill

Sat, 06 Dec 2014 19:21:27 EST

Thank you to everyone who shared kind words or stories about Matt. I really appreciate them and although my dad is not internet or computer savvy, I am printing the stories off for him to read. And we are very touched by them. Thank you. xo

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Sat, 06 Dec 2014 19:15:22 EST

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Story shared: "He was there when you needed him"

Wed, 03 Dec 2014 21:39:20 EST

We've known Matt and his family since he was a kid. His Dad has many talents and made sure he passed them on to his son. If he hadn't, my family would still be living in a home that needed heating, plumbing, siding and concrete work. About ten years ago I had started to "side" my 95 year old house myself. I got as far as the second floor and literally froze from fear of the height - a problem I did not realize I had and just could not conquer. Father and son came to the rescue.

I will never forget the ease with which Matt floated around that scaffolding. I hesitate to say he "looked like a monkey in a tree" but he moved around up there much like one - he had absolutely no fear. I was impressed with the confidence in himself that he displayed. I think that if Matt had more years ahead of him that skill and confidence would have taken him to his own new heights.

He was prone to the practical joke and would laugh uproariously if he succeeded in one as he and his Dad did with me some time ago. I'm not surprised to learn that his generosity and helpfulness was extended to many others over the years. He had his own way of coping with life's curve balls. He was really always a kid at heart - a likeable, generous kid.

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Wed, 03 Dec 2014 20:29:28 EST

Together Again...

Story shared: Rest in Peace Matty

Wed, 26 Nov 2014 10:56:40 EST

My family has known Matt and his family for over 30 years. Matt was always a loveable kid. He was a very generous guy with his time if you needed him for anything. Anyone who knew Matt, knows he was a unique character. He most definitely marched to his own drum. He'd make you laugh, even if you wanted to be mad at him. Matt always had a philosophical take on whatever was going on in the world or his life.

When I asked him how things were going, he'd often say he was "maintaining". It was one of many "Helmisms" if you will. He had a different take on things than most people you come across.

Matt helped my family and our family business with many, many things. When you needed a hand with something, you could call Matt and you could count on him. He may have marched to his own drum, but you knew he cared and had your back. He was a handy guy and was very talented. Matt had a very unique smile and laugh. When he would arrive at work, I would often hear him yell "Kickin' it" from outside my office and we would point and share a laugh without even talking. A character in every sense of the word. There was never a dull moment when "Leona Helmsly" (one of many nicknames) was around.

Funny...kind soul...willing to do the "dirty work" whenever needed...that is how I would describe him. Rest in Peace Matt...I hope you're hanging with "Kitty Kat" in Heaven. You had a heart of gold kiddo.

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Tue, 25 Nov 2014 19:36:58 EST

I went to highschool and graduated with Matt. Even though it has been years since I have seen him, I was deeply saddened to hear this news... Matt.. May you rest in peace. My prayers go out to your family and friends.

Condolence From Jeffery Jones

Tue, 25 Nov 2014 12:20:18 EST

Matt, growing up you were one of my best friends. We had a lot of great adventures together you and I. When I think back on my teen years every good memory involves you in some way shape or form. You were someone everyone could call a true friend. Always giving to others before yourself, always making us laugh, and quick with a kind and comforting word. I am blessed beyond measure to have known you and honored to call you my friend. I love you Matt and will always miss you. Fly with the Angels buddy. Jeffery W. Jones

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Tue, 25 Nov 2014 10:43:07 EST

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Condolence From Matthew Roberts

Tue, 25 Nov 2014 00:51:12 EST

Matthew, You were the best friend anyone could ask for. Always ready with whatever Anyone needed, despite your own problems you were ready for anything any time. You were a powerhouse of a man, and a living legend as a friend. I will miss you every single day. The other Matt.

Memorial Candle lit by Stephanie Gaugler

Mon, 24 Nov 2014 21:47:36 EST

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